DIAGNOSED WITH CANCER:
THE DAY MY LIFE ENDED... AND BEGAN!
I will never forget that Tuesday afternoon in the doctor's
office. I had been feeling sick for a long time and my mum had
taken me to hospital to have me examined. Two weeks ago, Dr Richards
asked me a great many questions and took samples of my blood.
Now, he was looking at mum and me across his desk and there was
a sad look in his eyes. I knew that the news was bad. Dr Richards
told me that the test results showed that I was suffering from
a serious disease. "It is cancer," he said. I did not
know much about cancer then, but I had heard that it was an incurable
disease. Mum held my hand and I saw that she was crying. I remember
having an empty feeling in my stomach and thinking that my life
was going to end.
I was wrong. This was only the beginning. Cancer, Dr Richards
explained, can be treated. Cancer is a disease that begins in
cells. There are many types of cells in the body and each has
a special function. In a healthy body, cells grow and divide to
produce new cells only when it is necessary. In my body, the production
of cells is disrupted. Cells either divide too fast or at the
wrong time, making it difficult for the body to function properly.
Nobody knows why some people get cancer and others do not. Doctors
do know that cancer is not caused by injury and is not contagious
- it does not spread from one person to another.
The next year was painful and difficult for me and my family.
Like many people with cancer, I had to be treated with radiation
followed by treatment with chemicals. The treatment made me sick.
Very sick. There were days when I wished that I were dead so that
I would not have to feel so sick. My family and friends were wonderful.
They helped me find the strength I needed to recover and they
kept me from feeling sad and lonely. Dr Richards and the others
at the hospital told me that I was a fighter and that I could
win. They were right. The treatment was successful and I was able
to go home after exactly fourteen months, two days and six hours
in hospital. '
Two years have passed since that day in Dr Richards' office
and my life has not yet ended. On the contrary, I now feel as
if that was when my life really began. I have been living with
cancer for two years and I plan to keep living with it for a long,
long time. Yes, my life has changed. The cancer in my body has
been defeated for the moment, but I know that I will never be
completely free from it. It can come back at any time and the
struggle will never end. I now think of my cancer as a gift. It
taught me an important lesson about life. Living with cancer has
made me realise how precious life is and how important it is for
us to take every chance to live life to the fullest. Every day
is a new opportunity, and I have learnt to appreciate every minute
of each day.